Server host will not allow me to increase memory_limit and max_execution_time

[editor6]

Like many others, I get the following error: Fatal error: Allowed memory size of 94371840 bytes exhausted (tried to allocate 16845060 bytes) in /home/.peches/southwest12/swsixteen.com/generator/pages/class.utils.inc.php(2) : eval()'d code on line 6
My site (swsixteen.com) is hosted by Dreamhost who do not allow clients to change their php.ini files. Are there any tweaks you could recommnend to reduce the size of the sitemap?

[XML-Sitemaps Support]

In most cases this can be resolved by optimizing crawler settings to exclude "noise content" from crawling. Try to identify pages that should not be really included in sitemap (like "add to cart" or "send to friend" links etc.) and define them in exclusion list. I've you need help, please PM me your generator URL.