I've also e-mailed support but i'll try here too:
I am running my videos with youtube-nocookie.com which is important for my site but is still valid youtube videos. It is not finding these videos and adding them to the sitemap is there anything I can do to fix this or does it need to be patched in an update? It is finding the other videos without the -nocookie.com fine and creating the sitemap
The Second option id like to enable is embed="no" on the sitemap. Although this one can be fixed easily my end with a find and replace if nothing else.